I know,
I talked about choices last week, but sometimes we have a hard time making
those choices. You can choose to eat
another handful of chips, you choose to skip the gym, or
choose to skip a walk. But what happens then? Because you feel so disappointed
in yourself you rummage through the pantry for a “quick pick me up” cookie.
Then the new habit/behavior begins and continues to spiral done from
there. Do you want to get a hold of your
unhealthy behavior? According to Authors
James Prochaska and Carlo Diclemente, there are five stages to change:
1.
PRECONTEMPLATION STAGE: In
this stage, people are not thinking seriously about changing and are not
interested in any kind of help. People in this stage tend to defend their
current bad habit(s) and do not feel it is a problem. They may be defensive in
the face of other people's efforts to pressure them to quit.
2.
CONTEMPLATIVE STAGE: In this stage, people are
on a teeter-totter, weighing the pros and cons of quitting or modifying their
behavior. Although they think about the negative aspects of their bad habit and
the positives associated with giving it up (or reducing), they may doubt that
the long-term benefits associated with quitting will outweigh the short-term
costs
3.
PREPARATION/DETERMINATION STAGE: In the preparation/determination stage, people have made a commitment to
make a change. Their motivation for changing is reflected by statements such
as: "I've got to do something about this - this is serious. Something has
to change. What can I do?"
4.
ACTION/WILLPOWER STAGE: This
is the stage where people believe they have the ability to change their
behavior and are actively involved in taking steps to change their bad behavior
by using a variety of different techniques.
5. MAINTENANCE STAGE: Finally
the action is maintained for several weeks. But most having maintained the
change, whether in diet, smoking habit, exercise or whatever, will sooner or
later fail and revert to the first or second stage. Then comes the verdict that
is most helpful; namely TO FAIL IS NORMAL!!! Next comes the best advice I have
found; we should not engage in self retort but instead DISCOVER WHY WE FAILED.
“Most
health concerns can be successfully addressed based on the willingness and
ability of persons to change aspects of their own behavior.” FOCUS ON HEALTH, sixth edition
I challenge you to take the time
to review the five stages, find out where you are and move to the next stage
and keep moving until you reach your changed behavior!